
The Sasebo Crew Family Christmas Photo 2008
門前の小僧習わぬ経を読む or "Mon zen no kozō narawanu kyō o yomu," the environment makes our characters.
What an interesting week it has been since my last post! The day after my last email, we found out that Thomas had been diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes and was being medevac’ed off his ship to Okinawa Naval Hospital. Now, as many of you know, Thomas is somewhat nervous around needles. He can’t stand to get shots, so his future actions would be very interesting… Well, a couple of days went by, until Friday morning when I read my email in the morning before going to school. Mummy and Pop asked me to go to Okinawa to visit Thomas. I had asked them if I should go earlier in the week, but since we weren’t sure of the Navy’s plans for Thomas, we decided I should wait.
So, Friday at 0630 I read the email. The previous four days at school were for exams so I hadn’t taught any classes. I had one class to teach Friday morning, and then the rest of the day was devoted to something else (never found out what). Thankfully, my class was first period. So, I went to school, and right after morning announcements, told my supervisor of my plans. She was awesome and looked up flights to Oki for me as well as filling out my nenkyu (paid leave) form. I spent half an hour after class getting things sorted before walking home and packing. An hour after I left school I was on a bus on my way to the airport in Fukuoka.
As soon as I got off the bus at the airport I walked up to the counter and bought a ticket for the next flight to Naha, the capital city of Okinawa. The flight was delayed 40 min in leaving but I finally made it. Mummy and I had read the Navy Hospital’s website, so I knew to get a particular kind of taxi with a green stripe, which indicated it could go on base. I knew from a couple of hours earlier that they might move Thomas from the ICU to outpatient status, so as soon as I got off the plane, I called the Thomas’ cell to ask him where he was, but his phone was off. I then called the ICU to ask Thomas where I should go. Unfortunately he wasn’t there, but they told me they had sent him to the BOQ on one of the other bases nearby. I then called the BOQ. Thomas hadn’t checked in yet. My first thought was “Oh, s**t, what do I do?” but then I realized I could leave my cell number with Reception so Thomas could call me back when he checked in. As I was doing that, Thomas walked in. What luck!
After a 45 minute taxi ride from the airport I finally made it to the base. He looked thin and a little gray, but otherwise was well. He was also in good spirits, so I was relieved. He was about 150 lbs, and I could count his ribs. Thankfully over the course of the weekend he gained 7 lbs back. After checking in, it was time for dinner. I must admit, it kind of weirded me out to see Thomas doing a stick and trying to draw and inject his insulin. He sometimes psyches himself out right before injecting, but is getting less hesitant as time goes on. Carb counting really annoyed him. He was told only to eat 45g of carb, and before diabetes he normally at 2-3 times that… After dinner we went for a 15 min walk down the street and back, which really tired him. However, even that small amount of exercise had an impact on his bg.
After the walking we noticed that the front desk rented movies for 24 hours for free, so we spent a couple of hours watching the first few episodes of Star Trek: The Next Generation, which was really fun. Growing up, we’d seen a lot of Star Trek (mostly Voyager, but some TNG, DS9, and Enterprise as well), so it was awesome to see the beginning of this one.
The next morning after getting breakfast we went to the exchange and commissary to get Thomas an insulated lunch box with a strap, blue ice, and snacks so we could outfit a kit for him to take around with his insulin and stick kit. After lunch and a nap, we drove to Kadena AFB to go to the exchange there because it is larger and we still needed a few things. What an adventure that was!
Before leaving Camp Foster, we asked for directions to the base and were told to go down Rte 330 until you get to Goya, then make a left turn. Simple right? Wrong. There were two Goya intersections, Goya South and Goya North. Not realizing there were two, we turned down the first one we saw, which was South. After realizing our error, we drove around on the back roads a bit until we could turn around. We tried again at Goya North, but Thomas was sure she said turn right, not left. Another 20 min of driving through narrow streets and up the world’s steepest hills before getting back to Rte 330. By this time we’d been lost for almost 45 minutes and had stopped to ask various people directions about 4 times until we made one last stop at a Lawson’s (convenience store) on the main road. We were told to go left at the light (Goya North) and continue on down the road until we arrived at the gate. We.finally.made.it. Le sigh. While we were there we wanted to eat at Sam’s by the Sea (a popular Okinawan chain, located near all the bases. Also Sam’s Café and Sam’s Maui I think). Unfortunately we realized we hadn’t brought Thomas’ insulin, so back home we went. Instead we went to Taco Bell’s on and got take out before going back to the room and watching Star Trek. Many of the meals we ate were take out from fast food, for two reasons. Firstly, Thomas was a little self-conscious about giving himself and insulin shot in public and also because there was an internet terminal in the room so we could google the carb count of the food we’d bought.
Saturday we decided to get up on time and go to the Naha Aquarium, which isn’t actually in Naha or anywhere near it. The aquarium is in Motobu-cho, about 1.5-2 hours north of the base (the range depends on if Americans are driving or not, they tend to drive faster than the Japanese, but never get pulled over by the police because of the Y, indicating American military, on their license plates).
After 15 minutes of searching for the entrance to the Okinawa Interchange (the big hwy on the main island) we finally found it and were on our way. It was a gorgeous day for a drive. We made it to the aquarium in good time. When we arrived it was lunch time, so we went to a buffet place (and at nowhere near the cost-effective amount) because it would be easier for Thomas to carb count.
The aquarium was amazing! They have many interesting kinds of fish, shallow salt water ocean fish, deep salt water ocean fish, mangrove fish, etc. Near the end of the walk about of the aquarium, there is a HUGE tank. They have 3 whale sharks, other kinds of sharks, a giant manta ray, other rays, and a ton of interesting fish. I highly recommend a visit to any visitor to Okinawa. We then drove back to Camp Foster, just in time to see the day’s movie, Eagle Eye, playing at the base theater. Really interesting, action-packed, sit-on-the-edge-of-your-seat movie.
That evening we went to Sam’s Café for dinner, which was right outside the gate. For the month of October, all of the servers were dressing up in some sort of Halloween Costume, so there were witches and clowns serving the food. Thomas had Kobe beef and I had some delicious tuna. After that we took a walk to the Baskin Robbins, but by the time we got there we decided we didn’t want any and went home and watched more Star Trek.
The next day, Monday, Thomas had an appointment at the hospital again. So after breakfast and some organization and room clean-up time, and lunch Thomas dressed in his uniform and we went to the hospital. We had a visit with his doctor and the nutritionist and then a visit to the Tricare person for orders back to Sasebo so he could go to the clinic there. Then Thomas dropped me off at the airport where I did my outgoing trip in the reverse with one exception. I wasn’t sure where the bus picked up at the airport, so I took Fukuoka’s metro to the bus station. It took me a few minutes to figure out how to buy a ticket, even though the vending machines had English, because you have to figure out which line your destination is on and go through the menus that way. Finally made it to the bus station and got a bus home to
Had a great weekend and wished I could’ve spent more time touring Oki, but that will have to wait for another visit.
Almost forgot to mention a funny incident today. Every Tuesday during third period is the English Teacher’s meeting, which takes place in the English resource room on the third floor. When I went up today I was a few minutes early, so decided to go to the bathroom. The typical layout for the bathrooms at my school is boys on the left and girls on the right. I don’t usually spend any time on the third floor; admin is first floor, teacher’s room second, and the English classroom fourth. So, when I walked into the right doorway I got a bit of a shock. I was in the boys bathroom! I immediately turned around and walked out as soon as I realized. I could hear the boys laughing after I left. The boy’s bathroom on this floor, from what I saw has taken up what is both bathrooms in other places. Thankfully, when you walk in, the first thing you see is a bank of sinks. I’m going to be more careful about looking for signs now, for sure.
I know it's been a while since I've written my last missive, almost 2 weeks I think… Anyway, this week at school is exam week, so I have to be here for the regular amount of time, but I'm not teaching any classes. I will be helping the English teachers make listening tests and such, and may help with some grading, but that's about it. So, I decided to bring my laptop to school today and spend some of my "free time" writing to you all.
Two weekends ago, we had bunkasai or culture festival. At my school this consisted of two parts: the first day took place at school and showcased the class projects and many of the performances. The second part took place in downtown Sasebo at the アルカス (Arukasu), which is a big music/performance hall. Think of it as a waaaay scaled down version of the Kennedy Center. Both days the public could come watch, but the second day especially was for everyone to come see. That day was one where everyone performed. It was great. I guess I should describe both days in a little more detail now that I've laid the foundation. On the first day, there were peformances in one of the gyms (we have 2) going on most of the day. I saw some koto students perform a couple of songs, the chorus, a Cinderella play, and a couple of dance performances. I have a bunch of this on video, and will put this up for you all to see on my blog, as soon as I think of a name.
Meanwhile, in the other gym was a bazaar set up by parents and townspeople selling anything from food, pottery, and linens, to towels and knit goods. I bought some food and a little knit thing that you're supposed to use to scrub your plates in the shape of a smiling eggplant. Too kawaii to use. On our school campus we also have a traditional building which is used by the students in the tea ceremony club. During culture festival, "masters" of the tea ceremony dressed up in kimonos and performed the tea ceremony throughout the day for interested parties. All of the gumi or class sections contributed in some way to bunkasai. Some did a dance performance or play as I mentioned before, and others did projects in their classrooms. Once class made stained glass windows with colored cellophane and construction paper, another used photos of the class' faces to make a collage of their teacher's face (way cool), another turned the classroom into the solar system with everything built to scale (o.O), and so forth. The students came up with some very interesting ideas. Also, the home ec students spent the week before the festival cooking up a storm so they could make and sell food during the festival. There were also food booths by some local groups and the Japanese version of the Red Cross (I can't remember what they are called) had a truck to do a blood drive. Unlike in the US, everyone here knows their bloodtype, so they put out signs saying which types they need.
That night (Friday) I decided to spend the weekend at Thomas' apartment, even though he had the duty all day Saturday, because the Arukasu is just a 3 min walk from his apartment and I didn't want to have to worry about getting the bus on time in the morning. And, Saturday night after the culture festival was over, I was going to have my official welcome enkai (party, but one involving colleagues) in downtown Sasebo. So, Saturday morning I went to the Arukasu. In front of the building there is a large square-like area. As the students arrived, they were instructed to sit in lines by year, then class, then number. For example, Ura-sensei is in charge of class 1-1, so the students from 1-1-1 to 1-1-41 would sit in front of her. Next to Ura-sensei would be Higa-sensei the 1-2 teacher. Students 1-2-1 to 1-2-40 would sit in front of him, and so on until the entire school of 800 some odd students and 70 teachers and staff were crowding this little square. We then marched everyone inside. Performances that day included some of the ones from the day before like the chorus and koto, but also had new ones like the baton twirling club, a taiko group (students from the nearby disabled school. They were really good!), and the brass band club. The brass band club was amazing. They prepared a few pieces selected by the music teacher, but also had a few they chose on their own. The first piece they played was one they selected and was a medley of Disney songs. All the students in the band wore some sort of had or headband, most Disney themed, and the student who was conducting dressed up in a Minnie costume. The students were really good, especially considering that music is only an afterschool activity. After a few pieces conducted by the music teacher, the students closed their concert with the theme song from My Neighbor Totoro, a very popular anime. I sang this theme song back in sophmore year of college at the yuki matsuri concert at Wellesley. This time the student conductor dressed up as one of the characters, a big gray ball-like monster. I've not seen the series, so can't describe it/him any better than that. There are a bunch of other events I'm forgetting to tell you about, but I think you get the idea.
Oh, I should tell you about a little incident that happened that day. So, back before Sports Day, I ordered and paid for bento for Sports Day and Culture Festival. On Friday, the office lady, Nakao-san, came up to me and asked if I really wanted to order bento that day. I asked what the other teachers were doing and she said eating food from the stalls. I said I would do the same and cancelled the bento. I ended up not eating lunch that day because by the time I go to the stalls at 1230, they were out of food. Anywho, that entire conversation was in Japanese, so I thought that's what she said. Turned out I was kind of wrong… So, on Saturday, I went with the other teachers at lunch to pick up the bento. I get in line and one of the other office ladies hands me a box. Nakao-san has the list and says "Oh Eleanor-sensei, you cancelled your bento." So she and the English teachers have a little back and forth conversation. I finally said that it was alright and that I would just walk a block down the street to the local Hotto Motto and order a bento. Hotto Motto is the place the school orders bento from everyday, so I was pretty familiar with it. I couldn't help but cry a little bit as I walked there. It was one of those days where all of the little frustrations I experience everyday in terms of communication just culminated into a major incident. I got my bento and managed to be ok by the time I got back to the Arukasu. I was in a bit of a bad mood until the brass band played after lunch. That gave me a huge lift.
After the culture festival was over I walked back to Thomas' house to rest up a bit before going out again for the enkai. The enkai was held in a Chinese restaurant in one of the reception rooms. Some of the teachers has assigned seats and other seats were assigned to a number. If you name wasn't written down when you walked in, then you picked a number from the kitty and sat in the designated place. I was seated at the head table as the enkai was to celebrate sports day and culture festival as well as to welcome me. Also at the head table was the music teacher representing culture festival, a P.E. teacher representing sports day, the head of the PTA, the head of the alumni association, the principal, and a guy I never got a chance to meet. When I arrived, they realized that they had neglected to put any of the English teachers at my table, so there was a quick reshuffle to seat my supervisor next to me. There were a couple of speeches and the kampai and then I gave a speech in Japanese along with the music teacher and pe teacher. Then the eating and drinking began. In Japan, when you're out drinking, you never pour your own glass, someone always pours for you. Therefore, if you're thirsty, all you have to do is top up someone else's glass and bingo! you're set. They also use this technique as an excuse to go over and talk to someone they don't know, in this case, me. I started out with a glass of beer (4oz glass) but quickly switched to oolong tea. Also, if you haven't drained your glass at all, but someone still wants to pour, then you both just go through the motions. They pretend to pour for you, but nothing comes out, and you pretend to sip without actually drinking anything.
The enkai was great fun. I got to meet and talk with a lot of teachers I might not have otherwise at school. One of the 2nd year Japanese teachers travels a lot so we talked about Egypt, Greece, and Istanbul. I also spoke with one of the soccer coaches. He was surprised to hear that girls play soccer in the US at school, because here it is a boy's sport. Also, there is no such thing as Title IX here, there are twice as many sports for boys as there are for girls. The party started at 1830, and ended at 2130. Usually there would a be a second, third, or fourth enkai, but thankfully there wasn't that night. I was walking back to my apartment, when I noticed I had a call from Connie, one of Thomas' fellow JOs. She and a few others were going to a karaoke bar where the entire bar sings and people weren't in booths. I joined here and about 10 others. It was a lot of fun. I enjoyed it so much that I convinced Thomas the next day that we really ought to host a dinner party. As, you know, that turned out really well.
From the Saturday of my enkai and culture festival to the following 2 weekends was a lot of party time. Tuesday, Thomas and I went over to the house of one of the JOs from the Tortuga who came to our dinner party. He made wings, creamed corn and rice. We then went downtown to a restaurant where Rich, was celebrating his 25th birthday. We sat down and had a few drinks. Rich's friends had arranged for a cake, so we tucked into that. After that came out, the restaurant brought out a cake once they learned three of us were celebrating our birthdays. It was an awesome time.
On Wednesday, I had dinner with Hayashi-sensei. Hayashi-sensei is the mother of one of the second year students at my school. She runs one of the Kumon centers nearby and teaches English and Japanese there. She is the one who asked me take part in the English Immersion camp. After she picked me up she took me to her house, the bottom floor of which is the center and the top part is their quarters. After her son Kyosuke arrived home from soccer practice we went to their favorite Japanese restaurant. Kyosuke and I both like tempura so had the tempura plates while Hayashi-sensei had the sashimi. This restaurant was pretty cool because as soon as you walk in, there is a pool set in the floor with all of the fish swimming around as well as several large tanks with the lobster, crab, and other shellfish. When they eat miso soup, they drink directly from the bowl, they don't really use spoons.
Thursday night I went with Thomas and some of his friends to Mongolian Barbeque on the base. They then left the next day. They had a two day extension because no one was sure which way the typhoon would go. Thankfully it bypassed Kyushu all together and followed the east coast of Shikoku and Honshu.
Carmen and Lauren arrived midday Saturday. I picked them up and took them to the local burger place and introduced them to the burger lady. After napping for a bit, we got ready to go downtown for dinner and karaoke. Everytime any one of us has made a trip to visit another, the trip has always had a name and a theme of some sort. Because it was my birthday, we had an 80s them. I wore a black top, miniskirt, aqua colored tights, and purple leg warmers with my black Steve Madden pumps to go with the theme. Carmen was wearing yellow tights and Lauren wore purple leggings. We all wore our hair the same way too. We got lots of looks, it was really funny. After eating dinner at an udon restaurant we met a bunch of my friends at karaoke place. We had our booth for two hours in an all you can eat and drink extravaganza. I've not had that much fun in a while. We sang current songs as well as old favorites like the Backstreet Boy's "I want it that way." Most of my friends left for home after karaoke, but Carmen, Lauren, and I, as well as the two Trinis went to an arcade nearby to play the taiko drum game as well as go to the photo booth. Carmen had never played before, but was really good. I like playing the game, but stink most of the time. After that we went to a bar/club called Rogiq (logic), but nothing was going on so we left. We then decided to go bowling. Thankfully, the bowling place is open late on Saturdays, as it was almost midnight by this point. We played two games, and I finally broke 100 with a score of 101. Lauren bowled a turkey which is three strikes in a row. On our way out, we played some more taiko, and Carmen really impressed some of the other Japanese guys playing, because she got a high score and got to enter her name in. 1. What do you like movie?
2. Do you like sport?
3. What movies do you watch?
4. Are there Japanese foods that you are favorite?
5. How old is your brother?
6. Is the White house white?
7. What movie do you like?
8. Do you like dog?
9. Do you like sport?
10. How do you think triplets?
11. Do you like Japan?
12. What kind of books do you read?
13. Do you like music?
14. How old are her brother and sister?
15. How many do you have boyfriends?
16. Do you read Harry-Potter?
17. What do you like the best countries?